*Note: This picture was chosen not because they pertain anything to this post, but because Asston made the paparazis and thus the majority of society realize hot beautiful older women. I really hate this guy in reality.
Every guy is, has had, or will have that inevitable fantasy of dating/being with an older woman. Let’s face it, it is something that just happens in life, just like the other randomness that comes with our so called life.
Personally, I have been down this road as of late. Now, don’t get me wrong, I am neither complaining nor ranting about being with them or even criticizing them. Well, maybe I am just ranting to get something off my chest, but I feel it is on my mind enough to warrant this post.
In the past month, I have met/been with women who I initially thought were around my age or just a smidge older (which I do not mind, and actually prefer). Heck, I even made (with little effort) my good friends to meet these women and have them tell me what they guessed their ages are.
Needless to say, all of us failed in guessing their right age………or even within 5 years of these women’s ages.
Girl # 1: All of us guys guessed her age to be around 22-23 at most. Turns out this good looking girl is 28 and almost 29 years old……..Now, when she told me this, I had to actually take a second look and question my eyes and wondered if I was drinking earlier that night (which I had, but it was just a pitcher, AND my friends that were sober agreed with me that it was almost impossible she was that age). I was only in shock for about an hour after that before I just went back to her and didn’t care about it. She, on the other hand, LOVED the fact that I thought she was younger and even joked to me that she is shooting for that hot when 40 years old fad thats in celebrity news nowadays.
Girl # 2: This girl was great. She was a free spirt kind of person and has one of THE BEST personalities EVER in a girl that you could find without scourering (sp?) every inch of the world, as we know it. Granted she isn’t a perfect 10, but then again that is only a myth. This girl was great, and once again, my friends and I guesstimated her age to be about around 25 give or take a year or 2. Lol and behold, she is actually 31. Wow, how quickly all of our eyes grew to the size of godzilla! Out of breaking the forbidden rule of never asking a woman her age, I asked her to say it again out of disbelief. She confirmed it and giggled at me and my friends and then thanked us for what she thought was us just trying to be nice to her. BUT, we were in fact in shock and telling the truth. Great girl……even joked with me that I’ll not care for her once she gets older…..I simply replied, “you mean like how I care for you now?” What a great girl, AND cannot stress how great her personality is either……she’s literally almost perfect, oh AND all kinds of freaky in private too which I absolutely LOVE!
Girl # 3: Get ready for this one folks, it is literally a mind blower ! She happens to be a best friend of girl # 2, coincidentally enough. She did look a smidge older than her friend but once again, I thought at most she would be 28 or so. Turns out she is actually 36………that is right, 36. She is literally one of those women who would still be awesomely hot when older. Heck, she should be on those hot 40 at 40 years old polls/programs that VH1 and E shows. Now, when I met this girl, we were all over each other and that was great, but when I found out her true age, I actually did not care at all aside from the initial shock. The fact that a great girl like this can look this good while aging AND just all around awesome is quite possibly a gift from god (or whatever higher being up there).
I do love older women, but there is also a concern when with older women…………this is something I have actually been thinking about as of late and really when I decided a while back to try and settle after years of messing around with women and always being that guy that could never find a girl to hold his attention long enough for a real long term relationship. My concern is family. Take the 36 year old for example, say I get that lucky in life and settle with her, what about kids? I mean there is modern medicine and all that crap out there today, but in all seriousness…..a person’s biological makeup especially when it comes to bearing a child is really complicated.
A part of me just wants to live the day and take it one step at a time just going day to day and enjoying these gifts that have fallen (literally) into my lap, but on the other hand I start to think long term and also not wanting to waste the time of these women to possibly go out there and find their Mr. Right.
Maybe it is true that we are simply visitors in this thing called life and we should just make the most of it, or maybe in my case, friends would just tell me to shut the heck up and enjoy these women.
Still confused in life,
-D
p.s. It is named Part I, because you just KNOW there will be a Part 2 after a post like this. Sorry for the lack of spaces, because apparently WordPress won’t let me leave them in……..odd
